Students in Distress: A Guide for Faculty and Staff

Students typically encounter a great deal of stress during their university years (i.e., academic, social family work financial). While most students cope successfully with the demands of university life, for some the pressures can become overwhelming and unmanageable. Students may feel alone, isolated, helpless and even hopeless. These feeling can easily disrupt academic performance and may result in harmful behaviors such as substance abuse and attempts at suicide.

Faculty and staff members are in a unique position to identify and help students who are in distress. This may be particularly true for students who cannot or will not turn to family or friends. Anyone who is seen as caring and trustworthy may be a potential resource in times of trouble. Your expression of interest and concern may be a critical factor in helping struggling students reestablish emotional equilibrium, thus saving their academic careers or even their lives.

The purpose of this is to help you recognize some of the symptoms of student distress and to provide some specific options for intervention and for referral to campus and community resources available to assist you with problem situations and to consult with you on whether to intervene with a particular student.

Tips For Recognizing Distressed Students

At one time or another, everyone feels depressed or upset. The following may help to identify some symptoms which, when present over a period of time, suggest that the problems with which the person is dealing are more than the "normal" ones.

Marked change in academic performance or behavior

  • Poor performance and preparation
  • Excessive absences or tardiness
  • Repeated requests or special consideration especially when this represents a change from previous functioning
  • Avoiding participation
  • Dominating discussions
  • Excessively anxious when called upon
  • Disruptive behavior
  • Exaggerated emotional response that is obviously inappropriate for the situation


Unusual Behavior or Appearance

  • Depressed or lethargic mood
  • Hyperactivity or very rapid speech
  • Deterioration in personal hygiene or dress
  • Dramatic weight loss or gain
  • Strange or bizarre behavior indicating loss of contact with reality

References to Emotional or Life Stressors

  • Problems with roommates, family or romantic partners
  • Experiencing a death of a significant other
  • Experiencing a physical or sexual assault
  • Experiencing discrimination based on gender, race, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or disabilities
  • Experiencing legal difficulties
  • Any other problem or situation that is experienced as a loss or stress

References to Suicide, Homicide or Death

  • Feelings of helplessness or hopelessness
  • Verbal or written references to suicide
  • Isolation from friends, family, and classmates

What can you do?

If you choose to approach a student you are concerned about, or if a student reaches out to you for help with personal problems, here are some suggestions which might make the opportunity more comfortable for you and more helpful for the student.

TALK to the student in private when both of you have the time and are not rushed or preoccupied. Give the student your undivided attention. It is possible that just a few minutes of effective listening on your part may be enough to help the student feel cared about as an individual and more confident about what you do.

If you have initiated the contact, express your concern in behavioral, nonjudgmental terms. For example, "I've noticed you've been absent from class lately and I'm concerned," rather than "Where have you been lately? You should be more concerned about your grades."

LISTEN to thoughts and feelings in a sensitive, non-threatening way. Communicate understanding by repeating back the essence of what the student has told you. Try to include both content and feelings, ("it sounds like you're not accustomed to such a big campus and you're feeling left out of things.") Let the student talk.

GIVE hope. Assure the student that things can get better. It is important to help them realize there are options, and that things will not always seem this hopeless. Suggest resources: Friends, family, clergy, coaches, or other professionals on campus. Recognize, however, that your purpose should be to provide enough hope to enable the student to consult a professional or other appropriate person and not to solve the student's problems.

AVOID judging, evaluating, and criticizing even if the student asks your opinion. Such behavior is apt to push the student away from you and from the help that he or she needs. It is important to respect the student's value system, even if you do not agree with it.

MAINTAIN clear and consistent boundaries and expectations. It is important to maintain the professional nature of the faculty/student or staff/student relationship and the consistency of academic expectations, exam schedules, etc. You may be able to help a student understand their options related to a deferred grade, late drop or withdrawal from the semester. If a student seems to feel overly distressed about making a decision about options, personal assistance can be facilitated.

REFER in making a referral, it is important to point out that: 1) help is available; and, 2) seeking such help is a sign of strength and courage rather than a sign of weakness or failure. It may be helpful to point out that seeking professional help for other problems (medical, legal, car problems, etc.) is considered good judgment and an appropriate use of resources. If you can, prepare the student for what they might expect if they follow your suggestion. Tell them what you know about other campus and community options.

TIMING it is important to be aware that options for referral vary depending on the time of day. The Personal Counseling Office is open Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. for appointments and crisis intervention. After hours and on weekends, students who are in crisis are advised to contact their Residence Life Coordinator on duty who will mobilize appropriate emergency support. Students may also contact Police and Safety at 898-6101.

FOLLOW-UP Arrange a time to meet with the student again to solidify their resolve to obtain appropriate help and to demonstrate your commitment to assist them in this process. Check later to see that the referral appointment was kept and to hear how it went. Provide support while the student takes further appropriate action or pursues another referral if needed.

CONSULT When in doubt about the advisability of an intervention, contact the Persona Counseling staff at 898-6504. After hours and on weekends, Police and Safety can be contacted at 898-6101 and will mobilize appropriate emergency support. The Erie County Crisis Services program, available twenty-four hours a day for consultation regarding mental health emergencies, can be contacted at 456-2014.


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Updated September 6, 2007
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